My Beautiful and Precious Sonshine. I Miss and Love you So much. To the Moon and Back and Back Again. Watch over your Sister for me please. My Love Forever, Your Mahies
Jeanne (CA)
October 7, 2008
My Darling Sonshine. I am consumed with sadness. I honestly don't know how to get on with life. Please help me.
Your Mahies
March 1, 2008
There really arn't any words to describe how sad I feel for Jeanne,the whole family, myself. I haven't talked to Jeremy in about 10 years. Jer and I were just kids but he was a very special person to me. He was my biggest weakness and my whole heart. I'll aways regret not keeping in contact but I'll NEVER regret the memories of him I will hold in my heart. Jeremy-you were and always will be my love.Please share that smile and all that heart you have with the angles you now walk with. *missy
melissa sweetin (CA)
January 27, 2008
I'm always here Jer... somewhere... always thinking about you. I love you Sonshine
Mahies (CA)
November 20, 2007
jeremy i dont know if i ever thanked you for being such a wonder ful friend to me. You were there for me when i really needed a friend, and you always gave me a shoulder to cry on. You helped me out when i was at the weakest point if my life. We would just sit in your truck for hours just talking about life and you would listen to me and give me support through everything. I miss you so much and wish that we didnt loose contact a few years ago, but Iam very thankful that i had you in my life when i did. I miss you very much and wish that i had just one more conversation with you. and i miss your laugh and smile.
erin schwoerer (sonoma county, CA)
November 19, 2007
MR. HAYWOOD IAM JUST HAPPY TO HAVE HAD YOU AS THE BEST SUPERVISOR AND FRIEND I HAVE EVER HAD, YOU WERE A ONE OF A KIND. MAN I CANT BELIEVE YOU WONT BE COMIN THROUGH THE DOORS AT WORK AND SAYIN GOOD MORNING, GOD WHY ALWAYS THE GOOD ONES!
LOVE ALWAYS YOUR EMPLOYEE , IEASHA JUNIEL
IEASHA JUNIEL (EAST PALO ALTO CA., CA)
November 18, 2007
Things like this are so unfortunate and sometimes life can be so unfair. May Jeremy rest in peace and my prayers are with the family!
From one fellow rider to another.
Carmen Trommater (Apollo Beach, FL)
November 16, 2007
jill jianopoulos (CA)
November 14, 2007
To our extended Haywood, Gess, and Speed family: Our relations go back to the mid seventies, when Dick and Donna Speed were wed. Jeremy was the first grandchild born into this new blended family. He was greatly loved by all the aunts, uncles, and cousins who came after him. His loss is indeed tragic, his life was full but too short! Many of us wish we knew him better. We send our love to all of you, and to Jeanne, Vern, Nicole, and Sarah. We pray for strength. Rick and Valerie
Rick and Valerie Speed (Seattle, WA)
November 13, 2007
Known to me as a young man with a quick smile and a fun outlook on life. A gap in the space continuem will never go away, I wish I could take the pain away for your Mom and family. Bless them and let the healing begin....Chuckie
Chuck Kaul (Lincoln, CA)
November 12, 2007
Jeremy, I was so shocked and sad to hear of your passing. You brightened my day on many occasions and you will be missed. Thank you for everything you always did to make this world a happier, brighter place. What a loss. My condolences to everyone who loved you, especially your family.
To your fiance, my most sincere condolences to you. I am so sad for you that you will not get to experience the long life together I am sure you had envisioned. Jeremy spoke often of you, with such love. I hope in time you can find some peace in your memories of him. Keep him alive in your heart.
Blessings to you.
Elizabeth Crandall-Whittom (Fremont, CA)
November 12, 2007
My heart aches for your loss. May you find comfort and support in those that surround you.
Virginia Pursley (Martinez, CA)
November 9, 2007
Jeremy, you will be missed here at work more then I can ever say. I still can not believe you are gone... Your laughter and sweetness will never be forgotten....
Peace be with you and your family.
Love,
Dawn Cavallaro (San Mateo, CA)
November 9, 2007
Jeremy -- Thank you for your everyday smile and cheer, and the light you brought to my days when I had the pleasure of working with you. It is not a surprise that so many people loved you and are affected by your passing. My deepest sympathies to Jeremy's family and loved ones.
Yvonne Durham Mills (Los Gatos, CA)
November 9, 2007
Jeremy, would of liked to known you but never got a chance.I will say that you're in my heart with your Mom and Uncle Walt and always and always will be.See you in my prayers!!
Dennis Larson (San Jose)
November 9, 2007
To Jeremy's Loved Ones; We are so sadden by your tragedy. There are no words but, many, many prayers.
Mark and Patrice Bernard (Redwood City, CA)
November 9, 2007
Well this really sucks. You have touched so many life’s and people are really going to miss you. It’s crazy that you were just over my house visiting and now you won’t ever be by again. I send my condolence and prayers to your family, fiancé and kids.
RIP Jeremy
Crystal Evans (Redwood City, CA)
November 8, 2007
I remember the boy whose face lit up at the dog. I remember his mother's smiles as she spoke of him, the joy you could feel when she spoke of either of her two.
There are no words, I won't even try to find some.
Deborah Levinson (Mason, WV)
November 8, 2007
We regret not having the chance to know the man that Jeremy became. Although many miles separate us, you all are in our thoughts and in our hearts. Even though we're not related, we'll always be your family in Illinois.
Steve & Jim (Chicago, IL)
November 8, 2007
It fills my head right this very moment of the past years growing up riding the bus to Hillview with you Jeremy. I just wish I had the chance to share a ride with you. RIP Jeremy You will Be will be missed.
Garrett WILLiams (San Francisco)
November 8, 2007
Jeremy, Rest in peace my old friend. We had not seen each other in years but you and your family are in my thoughts. Best wishes to your family.
Thomas Draper (Boise, ID)
November 8, 2007
My thoughts and condolences are with Jeremy's family during this difficult time. Jeremy's memory will live on in all of us...it's been over 10 years since I've seen Jeremy but the memories of him are still fresh and still make me laugh & smile! He was one of a kind...
Julie McDonnell (San Francisco, CA)
November 8, 2007
Jeremy-It has been quite a few years since we have last seen each other and I have to say I am still in shock from the news. Anyone and everyone who has had the chance to have you in their lives even if for just a moment, know the warmth and laughter that you always seemed to bring. You were a great person and a great friend to those around you. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and the people that knew you best. I still remember the pink floyd shirts you would wear in junior high and all the fun we had giving Hell to Mr. Bell. Mad Love Jeremy-Mad Love.
Martin Trevino (Mountain View, CA)
November 8, 2007
Jeremy,
You will be greatly missed. I loved seeing you every day with a big smile on your face. You were such a positive person with much respect for others. I will miss your smile and laughter that I could even hear from far away. I am glad to have met you and work with you. God's blessings and prayers are with you and your family.
Lori Nunez (San Jose, CA)
November 8, 2007
We were so sad to hear about Jeremy's accident and death. It is hard to believe the happy-go-lucky teenager we knew is gone. No parent should have to bury a child. Our thoughts are with you.
Les and Arlowayne Brenno (Auburn, CA)
November 8, 2007
You were always a sweet kind person> Cafe Borrone hanging out going to parties at Julian's and Yvone's>> Melissa Sweetin's Major crush on you>>> Then to find out My husban Nate and you went way back as well>> Iam not good at this but RIP>> Your A great Spirit!! My love go to your family
Jennell Koelling (Palo Alto, CA)
November 8, 2007
I was shocked and just couldn’t understand why such a kind and friendly person left us so quickly and suddenly, yet I feel so privileged to have met you Jeremy during these last 3 years. I will always remember you coming by desk with your warm smile and friendly words. What a loss for us now, but what a blessing you have been and will continue to be as we will always remember you.
Mary-Anne Guerrero (San Mateo, CA)
November 8, 2007
I am so very sorry to hear the sad news. I haven't seen Jeremy since Hillview Middle School and all of my memories of him make me laugh since he was always such a comedian. He was always such a positive person with a deep soul. My heart goes out to his family and friends. God bless you. RIP Jeremy.
Julie Hitchcock (Menlo Park, CA)
November 8, 2007
Rest in Peace Jeremy. Some of my best and most memorable times at Hillview involed you. We were very outspoken at that school. One thing I remember the most is your laugh, it's been a long time but I can hear it as if we where in Ms. Martin's study hall class now. You touched many,many peoples lives and will continue too. My deepest sympathy goes out to everyone this is effecting.
Katie Kay (Menlo Park/ Redwood, CA)
November 8, 2007
Jeremy was one of the finest young men I have ever met. He genuinely cared about everyone he knew and we all loved him. My prayers go out to his family at this time of grief.
trish hahn (sunny valley, OR)
November 8, 2007
Jeremy:
I miss seeing your smiling face and hearing your laughter as I started my work day. You touched my life so much. I will never forget you.
Sandy Devol (Mountain View, CA)
November 8, 2007
I am deeply shocked and saddened by this tragic loss. Jeremy had such a positive and upbeat attitude no matter how he was feeling. I am blessed to have had the opportunity to have met Jeremy. My prayers and condolences are with his family and friends during this very difficult time.
Tony Pereira (Livermore, CA)
November 8, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Becky Haywood (Patterson) (Elizabeth City, NC)
November 8, 2007
Some exist; Some live Jeremy died living Ride on, Jeremy I love you
Uncle Walt (Oroville, CA)
November 8, 2007
Rest in peace Jer you will always be in our hearts. You will never be forgotten Much Love.
Rex Yates (Redwood city, CA)
November 8, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Kathy & Phil Atwood (Rancho Cucamonga, CA)
November 7, 2007
Baby boy, If souls are taken when they have done what they came here to do, then leave, then it was for you to be loved by so many. To touch so many. I pray that God makes a special place for you, save us all a seat, we will see you again. I love you, always will. The goony grin will be the first thing I think of, the second was the joy you gave your mother, from first heart beat to last. Save me a seat, Baby boy.
Marcie Lewis (Santa Rosa, CA)
November 7, 2007
Jeremy,
I will always remember you by your smile. You were always eager to help others and always positive. God bless.
Avi Prasad (Belmont, CA)
November 7, 2007
I cannot imagine the pain and loss you must feel. I do know how much you loved Jeremy. I will always remember the love and pride in your voice when you talked about him. My thoughts are with you and Nicki.
Sheila Wolcott (Elk Grove, CA)
November 7, 2007
Jeremy, The year I have known you went by so fast that I am getting mad. Mad at the fact that we didn't kick it much. You lived doing what you love. Many of us are not as brave to grasp what we truly want out of life, You were. I am celebrating the life that you have led and your death only means that you are in a better place now smiling down on us. Untill we meet again...R.I.P.
Karl Noworyta (RWC / Menlo Park, CA)
November 7, 2007
"Germie"
I will truly treasure all the trips to Camanche we made as kids. I already miss your laugh and silly smiles. I will remember "you are sealife" and in the 3 steps you have taken that you need MOre Beer. I will miss you dearly. I love you with all my heart.
Vicki Wienand (Tracy, CA)
November 7, 2007
I can't believe I won't be seeing your smiling face here at work. You always made me laugh being "Merrill Man" (like Superman) and you'd stand there with your fists on your hips, "working for truth, justice and the Merrill way." It now makes me smile with tears. I will so miss my Good Friend!!
Kate Trevisan (Campbell, CA)
November 7, 2007
Jeanne I did not know your Son, but if he was anything like you, he was indeed special. There are no words in any language that can make this better. Just know I am here for you as you were there for my family. God bless.
Kathy Lewis (Santa Ana, CA)
November 7, 2007
Jeremy: What's up homie!! It's different now that you're in a better place. I will always cherish the times that we spent together. Besides being a great co-worker, you were truly an inspriation to me : ). You touched a lot of people lives without knowing it. I remember the first time we met 5 years ago, we clicked instantly. We talked about rap music and how it impact society. Your words were, " Black or white, I love all music". Since that day we never passed each other without speaking. I'm going to miss that the most.
Jeremy, I would like to thank you for the wonderful 26 years you blessed us!! Thank you for the 5 years you blessed me with your friendship. I thank GOD for sending you into my life. I would like to thank your parents for rasing you and your sister (Nicki) to be such wonderful people. Thank you Jeremy, for being just you : )
George Francies (Redwood City, CA)
November 7, 2007
Jeremy is my nephew. He had a winning smile, infectios laugh, and could charm the skin off a snake with that grin of his. We would have family nights with board games, and while he admittedly sucked at the games, he would crack so many jokes that he would have us laughing till we cried. I loved him and he was always there for his family. he told me a year ago at his mom's wedding that he would pick out a woman just like me. hmmm....was trying to make me feel better. but that was jeremy. i will miss him so.
Cindi Gess (Oroville, CO)
November 7, 2007
I will always love you Grandson. You are leaving a huge hole in my heart. I have never known a kinder, gentler more considerate young man than you. I am so devastated that I will never witness the perfect man that I knew you would be. I love you and miss you so much already.
Donna 'Grammybear' Speed (Auburn, CA)
November 7, 2007
Dear Family: I remember when Jeremy came into this world and I am so sorry to hear of the accident. Jeremy is a beautiful young man with the same happy playful face that I remember when he was little. Wishing the family peace and comfort, Connie,Rick, Erica & Natalie Larsen
Connie Larsen (Newark, CA)
November 7, 2007
Jeremy today I say a picture of you when you were 8 and one of you at 10. I wasn't looking for them they were just there looking at me from a box of pictures I had set out months ago to go though what a surprise. You will be truly missed.
Charlotte Lally (Marysville, WA)
November 7, 2007
Jer-You will always be missed, and never forgotten. Even though we kind of drifted apart you always had a special place in my heart, and always will. I am soo happy that I had you in my life. You were one of the kindess people I knew!!!RIP
Emily Meikel (Redwood City, CA)
November 7, 2007
Some people come into our lives and quietly go, Others stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never the same. I will never be the same, I love you Grandson!! Your Grammybear
Donna 'Grammybear' Speed (Auburn, CA)
November 7, 2007
Dear Big Bear,
Thank you for being the best big brother a sister could ever hope for. You are truly my hero. I love you and will miss you forever. Please take care and will be seeing you.
Love Always and Forever, Poozers
Nicki Haywood (Pleasanton, CA)
November 7, 2007
Jeremy will be missed dearly. He was a great guy and a wonderful person to work with. I will always remember his kind heart and eagerness to help others.
Everett Austin (Sunnyvale, CA)
November 7, 2007
Jeremy was one of those few types of people who could completely set the mood of where ever he was. He always radiated such positive energy with his laughter and joyfulness. I love him so much. My thoughts and prayers are with my family.
Wade Gess (Oroville, CA)
November 7, 2007
It was such a pleasure having Jeremy (aka "Moot") as a friend. He knew how to brighten anyone's day with his smile and sense of humor. I will always remember his smile when he would pull up beside my car on Oregon Expressway and do his famous wheelie, ending with a "thumbs up" before riding off. He will be truly missed by all. May God bless you and keep you in his care.
Bonnie Dabalos (Palo Alto, CA)
November 7, 2007
Jer, You will always be remebered for your humor and infectious laugh. You have brought a smile to so many. I will miss you and your sunny smile.
Cassandra Korp (San Mateo, CA)
November 7, 2007
Words cannot convey how sorry I am to hear of your loss. Keep his memories always in your heart so they may help ease the pain by reminding you of the joy he brought to life.
Jeff Elliott (Jefferson City, MO)
November 7, 2007
Jeremy:
I miss you so much already. You will never EVER be forgotten. You were one of my favorite people in this world and you always will be.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for believing in me, making me feel special and always making me smile. I hold you in the highest regard, for you truly were an angel, an angel to me.
Linda De Lise (Sunnyvale, CA)
November 7, 2007
Hey Jer it's Jer. I'll miss saying that. I can't believe you're gone. You are already missed.
Jerry Harlan (Redwood City, CA)
November 7, 2007
Jeremy, I had the great pleasure of working with you for six months. All I have to say is your maturity was beyond your age. I remeber the things you would say and the laughs we would share I knew how rich your heart was and I know just how much your smile touched evryones soul.I'll miss you bro.
Eddie Trujillo (Redwood City, CA)
November 7, 2007
I will always remember his infecious laugh; it always put a smile on my face. My deepest sympathies to all who are enduring this intense heartbreak.
Tracie Stephens (Martinez, CA)
November 7, 2007
I will truly miss you.
Lynn Guillermo (Palo Alto)
November 7, 2007
Jer Bear, You have not only touched my life, but many others with your kindness, your wit and charm and always having something nice to say. I'll miss the jokes, that beautiful smile, the bright light of you in our lives. You are missed already. You have been a joy to know and to work with. I'll be thinking of you always - and with a smile. I'll be keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers. Love you, Jer Bear!!!
Tammy Garcia (San Jose, CA)
November 7, 2007
IT'S WEIRD, I HAVENT TALKED TO JEREMY OR HIS FAMILY IN YEARS YET I CAN REMEMBER ALL THE THINGS WE DID TOGETHER. I REMEMBER THE FIRST DAY I MET JEREMY IN 8TH GRADE...LOL...HE HAD ONE OF THOSE SMILES THAT YOU CATCH FROM ACROSS A ROOM. HE ALWAYS WAS MAKING PEOPLE LAUGH. I REMEMBER GOING TO HIS HOUSE WITH MY FRIEND HALEY AND TRYING TO RIDE A SKATEBOARD...YEAH IT DIDN'T GO SO WELL!!! OR WHEN HE AND A BUNCH OF OUR FRIENDS WOULD COME OVER TO MY PLACE AND WE WOULD GO OVER TO THE PARK AND HANG OUT OR GO TO THE REC CENTER TO GO SWIMMING. I ACTUALLY JUST CAME ACROSS A FEW PICTURES OF US WHEN I WAS PACKING UP TO MOVE. EVEN THOUGH WE DIDN'T KEEP IN TOUCH THIS STILL HURTS SO MUCH!!!
JEREMY~ I WISH THAT WE HAD KEPT IN TOUCH...I HATE THAT I'M WRITING THIS ALL DOWN NOW INSTAED OF TALKING WITH YOU. I NOW THAT YOU WILL BE LOOKING DOWN ON YOUR WHOLE FAMILY....AND MAKING HEAVEN A BETTER PLACE!!!
RIP JEREMY....YOU WILL BE MISSED
VANESA CINQUINI (REDWOOD CITY, CA)
November 7, 2007
I was deeply sadden to hear about the loss of your son. We talked many times about how important our children were to us and I can't even imagine the saddness in your heart today. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
Jim Noviello (Williamsport, PA)
November 7, 2007
I have had the pleasure of working with Jeremy for the past 11 months. He was truly a beautiful soul. He always had a smile on his face and in turn brought one to mine. I will miss his smile and hearing his laughter echoing down the hall. I feel blessed that his life passed mine. He was one of those rare people you meet and you instantly feel you have known them for a life time. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
Nicole Rave (Foster City, CA)
November 7, 2007
JEREMY I AM GOING TO MISS SEEING THAT ENERGETIC SMILE AND THOSE EVERY MORNING HELLO'S...YOU WILL BE MISSED DEEPLY, AND I LOVE YOU BIG BRO! IT JUST WON'T BE THE SAME HERE @ WORK OR SEEING YOU POP THOSE WHEELIES, AND BURN OUTS, BUT YOU WILL FOREVER BE IN OUR HEARTS. AND KNOW THIS, NO MORE PAIN, AND GOD GAVE YOU THE ULTIMATE HEALING!!!****XOXO SHAMEKA YOUR FRIEND & EMPLOYEE*****
SHAMEKA HAMILTON (PALO ALTO, CA)
November 7, 2007
Connie and I are deeply saddened by your great loss. Any words cannot express your loss.
Darryl & Connie Stevenson (Pleasanton, CA)
November 7, 2007
You will always be in our hearts. You were my little love bug. I will cherish the times i spent with you.
Grandma Judy Haywood (Mountain View, CA)
November 7, 2007
Jeremey is my nephew. He was strong, intellengent and could charm a mouse away from a cobra with that winning smile of his. I am thinking that his best quality for me is his ability to make me laugh. No matter what the situation has ever been for me or my family...when jeremy comes around and throws his arms around me and makes some silly comentary....the laughter prevails.This is a quality in one, i both admire and search for. My fondest memories are of our game nights. jeremy is so not good at playing these games so he pulls out his winning smile, and cracks so many stupid jokes that he has everyone rolling . my life is so much better for having loved him. when jeanne got married last year, i personally was going through a hard time, and jeremy came up to me a put his arms around me and told me how he wanted to marry a woman just like me. and he made me laugh. come on........i love my newphew and will carry his memories throughout.
Cindi Gess (Oroville, CA)
November 7, 2007
Ray, Beth and family, I am so sorry to here about Jer's accident. We send our prayers and condolences and best wishes.
Craig McCarty (Colorado Springs, CO)
November 7, 2007
I love you so much Babe! I will miss you so much!!! I'm so lost without you!!
SarahBeara Flohr (Mountain View, CA)
November 7, 2007
Sometimes it is easy to get sucked into a mean world mentality. Between the news and just random little everyday things, a senstive soul such as myself needs a gentle push or reminder that it is not all bad and not everyone is that way. That is why people such as Jeremy should be appreciated. The ones that always have a good word and will make you laugh till you can barely breathe. That live their life to the fullest and be association get those around them to do the same. Thank you Jer for teaching us and sharing. I am a better person to have met you.
Shelby Baker (Foster City, CA)
November 7, 2007
Jeremy: I don't know if I ever did thank you or express what your kindness and humor did to me. I am sure I did and to you it was nothing to fuss over. It was just you being you. But you were a good friend and a wonderful person that contributed to my life in your own way. I am grateful I did get to meet you and shall try to keep your spirit alive by emulating some of the characteristics that made you special. From one writer to another, you also had talent and through words I shall also express and capture your being so that others may appreciate the type of person you were.
Shelby Baker (Foster City)
November 7, 2007
My Darling Babyboy - I have no more words.
I love you Sonshine. I should have went first not you.
All my love forever, Your Mahies
Mom
November 7, 2007
you will be missed dearly...many of my child hood memories have you in them...
Claire Bauer (nampa, ID)
November 7, 2007
My beautiful Sonshine - how I will spend the rest of my days missing you with all my heart and soul. You were so young and so full of life and taking you away was so cruel. I love you. Forever